Dating for the shy
I’ve broken it down to three parts: Overcoming inferiority, not being too invested, and becoming assertiveness. And if you do, it will still be far less than around the girl you are attracted to.
This post is going to go into more depth than anything else out there. Think about the way you talk to girls who you aren’t really attracted to. Do you talk to them the same way you would talk to a guy friend? This happens when you place so much value on looks that a good looking girl becomes intimidating.
Realize that how someone looks does not dictate how valuable they are.
It just means that you have some catching up to do because of your shyness or social anxiety. Inferiority makes you feel not entitled to be confident and express your personality.Do not put the girl on a pedestal before you even know her. That’s why so many women give guys the advice to “be yourself.” They don’t like it when a guy is trying hard to impress them and get them to like him.Especially when they haven’t done anything to deserve his attention yet except looking pretty.Sure, you may be attracted more to a good looking girl, but physical looks alone shouldn’t be enough to immediately make you intimidated and won over.I remember back when I was very shy around girls, I would start to really like a girl and start to fantasize about our future together… In hindsight, it seems so foolish, yet so many shy guys do it.